You have thought about both sides of this situation more carefully than anyone else in the room, and you're being told you can't make up your mind. These are not the same thing.
The indecision is not weakness. It's that you are genuinely holding multiple valid positions simultaneously. When you see the situation from three perspectives and all three have legitimate points, saying "I'm not sure yet" is the accurate answer, not the evasive one. The frustration people have with Libra indecision is usually the frustration of people who have made up their minds faster by considering fewer angles. You have noticed that this doesn't always lead to better decisions.
The fairness instinct runs automatically, even when it's not your conflict. Somebody at the table is getting talked over and you noticed it before they did. The allocation was slightly off and it bothered you even though you weren't directly affected. This is not you inserting yourself where you don't belong. It is a calibration instrument pointing at an imbalance, and it was running before you decided anything.
You have an aesthetic sense that is not about taste. It is about proportion. The room that is slightly wrong — where something is off about the balance of elements, the colors, the spatial arrangement — sits in your peripheral vision and pulls at your attention. People assume this is about being pretty or stylish. It isn't. It's about whether things are in right relationship to each other. The aesthetic sense is a fairness sensor applied to visual space.
Peacekeeping is a real skill and it has a real cost. You have smoothed over a conflict that was going to cause damage. You have found the sentence that made two incompatible positions find temporary common ground. This is useful. The cost is that it requires you to put your own position second, repeatedly. Sometimes the position you didn't fully state was the accurate one. You know this. It didn't get heard. The accounting on this, over years, can go quiet before it surfaces again.
The "people-pleaser" read is wrong, or at least incomplete. You are not primarily motivated by needing to be liked. You are motivated by the genuine discomfort that comes from being in a situation of interpersonal conflict, which feels to you the way a discordant note feels to a musician — wrong in a way that wants resolution. The resolution is not always possible. When it isn't, Libra develops a specific kind of fatigue that looks like passivity from outside.
You can see the strongest version of the opposing argument, which occasionally makes it harder to hold your own position. You argue well because you know the counterarguments. The liability is that you sometimes become the counterargument for your own views before anyone else has a chance to, which undermines your confidence in positions that are actually correct.
Your relationships are where you do your most serious thinking. Not in a dependent sense — in the sense that how you understand yourself in relationship to other specific people is part of how you understand yourself at all. What shows up in close relationships is information about your interior, not just information about the relationship. Libra is a relational sign, which means solitude provides some kinds of data and relationships provide others, and you need both.
The harmony you maintain is not an absence of strong feelings. You have strong feelings. You have chosen, repeatedly, not to lead with them in contexts where leading with them would disrupt something fragile. This is a choice, not an absence. The feelings are there. The container around them is deliberate.
You are a better mediator than advocate, which has cost you in professional contexts. You can represent two positions fairly. You can find the synthesis. What is harder is stating your position without immediately qualifying it into something palatable to everyone. This is worth working on, not because Libra's relational intelligence is wrong, but because sometimes the room needs an advocate more than a mediator, and you are the one with the clearest view.
When you do decide, you are done deliberating. People assume Libra never commits. Libra commits completely, once the analysis is finished. The commitment is proportional to how long the deliberation took.
The chart reading that goes with this takes about four minutes.
